Sunday, September 8, 2013

Man up, woman up

We often tell men to "man up, be a man" "be a real man" ect ect ect

Well at what point do we say "woman up?" "be a woman".

I have thought of the is entire concept for years, in my time around tactless girls, two faced bitches and fake to the 8th degree.that is all fine and dandy , i decided women and the drama seem to get worse with age by a long shot. I am fine with that. Its ok, I began to separate myself from people to an extreme.

I recently took several months off facebook, because for me the icing on the cake really occurred. I have known both these woman since HS and we had all become pretty good friends, I mean for knowing each other in "real life" not "facebook" life. We even had a mini reunion at the "nice" girls home. Very gracious of her.

Now the "mean" girl i instinctively decided to end contact with, and she wasn't the friend i excepted or deserved. we all know when i feel that way i just cut the ties, its harsh but its ME. ALL ME NICOLE, nothing fake about it.

Well I had been apart of various face book groups, and randomly saw one titled "baby crazy"

I had zero expectations, no clue what was being posted, just wanted to check it out

Well my FRIEND, who just adopted a baby in Texas, I literally had dinner with the family days prior to this FB post.

I joined the group and i see a very LONG post completely bashing my friend, her family, her baby, her parenting, in every way possible.... it wasn't like "im annoyed , im irritated" it was deep, deep heart  wrenching insults, bashes on character, really below the belt.
comments that all seem to come from a deep hate , anger, jealousy, and envy,

Envy because all that matters to this woman is the number of babies she can produce, i mean how dare they go adopt so easily, how unfair!

Well you are wrong, this couple more than deserves, these are good people, and every parent has their own way of being a mom and dad.

this woman lives her life online completely, complains about her family, her mommy groups, her in laws, and if shes pregnant or not. I mean GET A FUCKING LIFE.
So because i stick up for my dear friend on the post, she has all her "internet bullies" send me emails harassing me, and on and on.
like really grow up, be a WOMAN!!!

The reason  i still l decided to post this, is because its something that still bothers me.The lack of apology bothers me, the judgement bothers me, the bitter-ness bothers me, and the immaturity you are capable of when you have been in this woman's home is mind baffling.

if a so called friend can do this to  one, she can do it to others, don't be fooled!

WOMAN UP, Make a public apology to us, and to me for having your "internet" friends get involved,admit your wrong doings! Your life isn't so bad, none of us have everything we want, but that's no reason to tear someone apart for having something you want. I truly hope you learned from this!